Dear Diary: My Wife Has Filed For Divorce.

Discussion in 'Off Topic Discussion' started by DawkinsINT, Apr 26, 2014.

  1. smeags

    smeags militant geek

    truth omen.
     
  2. Mike

    Mike Want some Cheetos?

    you divorce spouses, not children
    less the spouse denys you visiting
     
  3. Steve12

    Steve12 The night is dark and full of terrors

    Same here, except no happy ending. There will never be any forgiveness from me to my father. He made no effort, so screw him.

    I definitely don't think you'll end up that way, dawk. I can tell just from our interactions here that you're a better man than him. You understand it's on you to make the effort.
     
  4. DawkinsINT

    DawkinsINT Tebow free since 9/5/2015.

    I totally do. I wouldn't be able to live with myself if I let my relationship with them die.
     
  5. Greg Brosh

    Greg Brosh Local Eagles Fan Fantasy Guru

    I'm sorry to hear this Dawk. Hopefully you can work it out. But if not, you better make sure you get a good lawyer because if she spends like you say, she'll be looking for A LOT.
     
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  6. Diesel44

    Diesel44 Serial Killer

    any man that takes kids who are'nt his kids and makes them his is a very special man my friend.The world would be a lot better if it were filled with people that have that much goodness in their hearts.
    I Know i respect the hell out of you for it!
     
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  7. Steve12

    Steve12 The night is dark and full of terrors

    So true it needs to be posted 3 times lol.
     
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  8. Tarkus

    Tarkus The Thread Stalker

    Amen

    & in the spirit of that sentiment, let's throw in Knuckleheads Greg & Kurt also...
     
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  9. Aussie61

    Aussie61 Nutcase

    Right on! Never know what the old cow is saying behind peoples backs.
     
  10. Aussie61

    Aussie61 Nutcase

    Dawk.I feel your pain as I have been through a divorce I didn't see coming.I knew there were problems but thought they could be fixed,then she said the fateful words,"I want a divorce". My suggestions of counselling and seeking some help to try and reconcile were all met with a negative response.In my case there were no kids involved.
    I'm going to offer one piece of advice.If ever you feel like things are getting you down,please don't let male pride get in the way,go and see a counsellor or support group.I didn't do that and paid a price for years,my mind took me to some dark places before I got help.Working with a psychologist was the best 3 months of my life and changed my whole attitude.
    As all the guys have said,we are here to listen and will support you as best we can.
    Try and stay positive and be true to who you are.:cheers:
     
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  11. DawkinsINT

    DawkinsINT Tebow free since 9/5/2015.

    She definitely talked crap, but she's not directly a reason for our divorce. She is indirectly though in the sense that she was a horrible and abusive mother when my wife and her siblings were growing up. My wife is on like 3 million different types of medication like Zoloft, Xanax, etc... It all goes back to how she was raised.

    Thanks for the kind words and advice. If I feel I need to see a psychologist, I am not afraid to try something like that.
     
  12. Tarkus

    Tarkus The Thread Stalker

    You take too much advice from us lunatics, I guarantee you'll need to see one...
     
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  13. DawkinsINT

    DawkinsINT Tebow free since 9/5/2015.

    So last night I started hearing weird whistling like noises in our backyard. We have a small pond. I saw two frogs having s*x. Same noise tonight, but now they have eggs laid.

    This is embarrassing to admit, but true....I'm actually jealous of these frogs. How the duck did my self-esteem sink so low so quickly??
     
  14. Walnuts

    Walnuts All-Pro

    Please tell me you aren't beating off to frog porn, man.
     
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  15. Walnuts

    Walnuts All-Pro

    Because let me tell you that is probably not a road you want to go down...walking around trying to hide an erection whenever the frogs are croaking on warm summer evenings is generally not really encouraged by polite society in my experience.
     
  16. Diesel44

    Diesel44 Serial Killer

    That Stuff Deep Fries Your Brain Worse Than The Hard Stuff Ever Will. That Could Be What's Wrong With Her.
     
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  17. Aussie61

    Aussie61 Nutcase

    He's strokin' to the croackin' :ROTFLMAO:
     
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  18. Mike

    Mike Want some Cheetos?

    Here is the important question Dawk, well important in my mind at least. Who gets the house, you haven't even been there long enough for the new house smell to fade away?
     
  19. DawkinsINT

    DawkinsINT Tebow free since 9/5/2015.

    We're going to sell it.
     
  20. DawkinsINT

    DawkinsINT Tebow free since 9/5/2015.

    Yesterday my brother, a lifelong friend, and one of my brothers-in-law came over. My wife took the kids to her mother's house so we could just let it rip. It was a solid 12 hours of drinking, laughing, serious discussions, and just overall a great time. At least on two occasions we laughed so hard that I cried and my ribs hurt. There was literal on the floor laughing. I needed that so bad. I have some great people in my life. Not that I didn't totally appreciate them before, but last night was next level crap of honesty and bonding.