Re: Bengals CB Adam "Pacman" Jones Is The Real Victim In Assault Case His Attorney Sa Lol. I agree. But there are situations that could justify a strike. I don't think anyone is saying: women, all women, need to learn their place. No. But how many times have you been in a situation like his? I have. I didn't strike the woman, I was already on my way out of a club, n it was an ex going crazy cuz she seen me with a new girl. But she went from verbal to physical very quickly. Since I was on my way out, I paid it no mind n kept it moving. Had I stayed at the club, I could see how it would have escalated. My point is, in a wrong state of mind (drunk, high, emotional, vengeful, on her period, whatever) any girl can get carried away n needs a reality check. I'm not gonna give her the opportunity to hurt me or anyone I'm with. Like I said, nip it in the butt. I don't think its anything to do with being a tough guy...its just a matter of taking control of a situation that could get worse. ...and I fade back to black.